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Da feet shall not conquer me!

My youngest daughter is very active in Special Olympics. Right now we are in softball and golf season. Needless to say, there have been some distraught coaches, recently, when my daughter began having trouble hitting the ball.  Both!  Softball *and* golf ball.

This wouldn’t be a problem, per se, because we strive for improvement, not perfection, in Special Olympics.  But my daughter hadn’t had this problem last year. Or the year before that. Etc. So everyone wanted to know… “What gives??”

If last practice is to be believed… it was tennis shoes that were too tight. Although mom had repeatedly asked her about the shoes her dad bought her (without her being present)…she had assured me “they’re FINE!!!”   “Mom….they FIT, okaaaayyyyyy!!!??”

We are trying to streamline the “back and forth” process for her transitioning, weekly, from one home to the other. So this past week, we decided to go buy her another pair of tennis shoes so she can have a pair at each home.  So, off we went… in search of that awesome pair of tennis shoes, without an awesome price tag.

We found a clearance pair (hallelujah!), which she wore to golf practice Monday. The results were nothing short of amazing.  It turns out, all those coaching admonitions for her to “put her weight more forward on her feet” (both sports) were not going to happen in tennies that were too tight.

We had missed this simple, but critical, factor.  Sometimes your “swing” in life isn’t about your arms …or the club …or bat.

In looking at my situation this week, facing my problems head on, I have elected to start at the proverbial bottom.  Am I taking care of my “feet?”  In other words… am I well grounded? Am I practicing healthy spiritual, physical and emotional habits which give me foundation and balance? Am I doing those things which will help me put my weight more forward, and result in a better “swing” ????

How about you? ….do you have any too tight tennis shoes that you might be overlooking?

A glass act

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Believe it or not, one of the first phrases that was drilled into my son’s head when he became a Marine was “Hydrate, hydrate, hydrate!”  I’m not saying there weren’t MANY other things drilled into his head in the Corps…but I am not exaggerating when I say I think that phrase would be in the top five. Without question, that training served him extremely well during his three tours in Iraq. Good son ♥ that he is, he taught his MM (Marine mom) this useful phrase, early on. It will still pop up in conversations every now and then, years later.

Water is my friend. A really, really important friend. But for all my awareness about the importance of hydration, sometimes I still abuse that friendship.  My body usually begins by gently saying, “Excuse me, water please!?”  If that goes ignored for too long, the head begins to throb and all the other body parts, both within and without, begin to dry out, gasp, and complain, each in its own individual way.

Before my divorce, in the house we lived in, I had the luxury of a water filter which (I evidently hadn’t truly appreciated) had greatly enhanced the taste and smell of tap water. In my girl cave (aka apartment), I am without that luxury. The taste and smell of the tap water isn’t horrendous, but it is just enough that I ‘notice’ it, however slightly, each and every time I grab a glass full of water.

I’m not buying bottled water. I am not only trying to be Green as possible but I’m also trying to keep my green as much as possible. And I’m not buying a pitcher filter system that has to be replaced every week. (ditto, same reasoning).

Which all amount to excuses. However, the body doesn’t do well, living on excuses (and without adequate water intake), for too too long…

So, recently, when I asked myself the question, “What is one thing you can do, right now, that will make today (and tomorrow) better?” the answer was quite simple. And actually pretty l-o-u-d (picture drill Sgt, screaming in my face) :   “HYDRATE. HYDRATE. HYDRATE!!!”

So it was time for solutions, not excuses. The answer? Restaurants do it all the time! Easy – economical. Why didn’t I do this ages ago??? I buy two lemons and a cucumber at the grocery store. At night I’ll cut either a couple of thin wedges of lemon or a couple slices of cucumber (or both) and float them in a pitcher of water.

The result? The next day, the flavored water is actually something I really enjoy drinking.  Cost? About $2 a week…and about 2 minutes of self discipline, each night.

After use, I often cut up and freeze the lemon rind pieces. I’ll throw a couple frozen lemon pieces with an ice cube or two — grind in the disposal — and the girl cave plus the disposal smells nice. :-)

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